ADHD/ ADD and Parenting

The quality of life decreases considerably for some people with ADHD. They behave in such way that they are considered difficult by teachers. They often have learning problems, and frequently their development is behind on other kids. Children with ADHD have to deal with a lot of negative responses from their surroundings, because of their busy and chaotic behaviour. This is the cause for the fact that they’re often very uncertain.
When the ADHD symptoms continue until they reach the age of 18 it will probably be something they have to deal with throughout their whole lives. The school problems will continue, they have a higher chance at work problems, they perform less in comparison to their colleague’s, experience problems in their relationships, have greater risk of becoming involved in traffic accidents and a higher chance of alcohol, tobacco and drug abuse. This has negative consequences on the social position of an adult.

ADHD in a family has an enormous influence. Parents of children with ADHD are frequently told that they aren’t raising their child the right way. Because they often feel that their child is not developing well, the parents try to find out what they are doing wrong. As a result, they feel guilty. Through the negative responses they receive from their surroundings they are left lonely and discouraged. Here are some things you can/must do as a parent dealing with a ADHD child:

• Make sure that you know enough about ADHD and its possible impact. There are several Adhd-websites, also for sharing your experiences with others.
• Do your own things. Especially the things that give you pleasure and entertain you. This may prevent you from developing burnout.
• Create time to share experiences with trustworthy people in your surroundings and keep in contact with people outside the family.
• Find people in similar situations, for example by means of several Adhd-sites
  A child with ADHD profits probably from clarity. On the Internet you can find all sorts of recommendations and tips. Look what fits you and is appropriate for your child and the situation.
• A good cooperation between school and parents is important for a child with ADHD. Try to create unity in the way you approach your child.